一年一度坑爹光棍节又要来了。但是“末日”将至,我们怎么可以继续单身?
其实那个适合你的那个人就在身边,只是你没发现而已。以光棍节的名义,勇敢的向身边的朋友下手吧!
Stuck in the 'friend zone' with that special someone who you wish could see you in a more romantic light? Here's a simple insight into getting that someone of your interest, interested.
是不是跟那个自己希望能共度浪漫时光的人还处在“朋友阶段”?下面就教你如何让心仪的人对你来电。
1. Be Patient.This individual who has been your friend, is not going to overnightfall magically in love with you with no matter what advances you make.
耐心。甭管你多么优秀,这个人既然是你的朋友,就不太可能突然莫名其妙爱上你。
2. Carry on being a good friend. Don't just stop all friendly things with her and become this new flirty guy. You'll creepher out and lose her friendship.
继续保持亲密的朋友关系。千万别光顾了要成为恋人而忘了要朋友,这样你不仅可能吓到她,还会损失友情。
3. Be Bold. This is probably the reason why you got stuck in the friend zone in the first place. Let her know how amazing you think she is (but don't overkill it).
勇敢点。也许正是因为缺乏勇气,你俩才会从一开始就只是朋友关系。请告诉她你是多么欣赏她(但别夸大其辞)。
4. Go for the kill. By now you are ready to ask her out on a date. Take her outside or somewhere quiet, where the two of you can be alone, pull her in close, look her dead in the eye and say, "Would you like to go out some time?" She'll know its not on a friendship term.
拿出行动。关系发展到这个阶段,你就可以跟她约会了。带她到外面或安静点的地方,就你和她,然后拉过她、看着她的眼睛,说:“愿不愿意什么一起出去玩玩?”她定能意会到友谊之外的情意。
5. Get physical early.You need to get out that friend zone and the best way is to get intimate. When you go out hold her hand, put your arms around her and read her body language.
亲密接触。若想跨越朋友阶段,最好的办法就是亲密接触。俩人约会的时候,牵着她的手,搂着她的腰,留意她的反应。
如果能进展到这个步骤,那么恭喜你们,已经顺利的脱离光棍了。
当然在这一切进行之前还需要一个适合的环境。
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